My Story: From Hardship to Community Support

This year has brought challenges I never saw coming. I left my job to support my son Freddie through a serious health issue while navigating my own medical struggles. The combined loss of income and mounting bills left me worried about how I would put food on the table.
In my moment of need, I swallowed my pride and reached out for help. The response was overwhelming—friends, neighbours, and even kind strangers donated food and essentials, reminding me how powerful a caring community can be.
That outpouring of support changed my life. It inspired me to pay it forward and ensure other families facing hardship this Christmas have the support they need.

My Mission: £50 Vouchers for 50 Families

I’ve launched a GoFundMe campaign with a clear, compassionate goal:

• Raise £2,500 in donations
• Purchase £50 supermarket vouchers
• Distribute vouchers to 50 families
  Each £50 voucher will help a family buy groceries they need—fresh vegetables, pantry staples, and treats for Christmas dinner. No one should have to choose between heating their home and feeding their loved ones during the festive season.

How The Fundraiser Works

This campaign combines direct donations with social media engagement to maximize impact:

1. GoFundMe Donations

• Every pound donated goes toward food vouchers.
• You can give anonymously or leave a supportive message.

1. TikTok Creator Fund Engagement

• I’m a member of TikTok’s Creator Fund, which pays creators for views and engagement.
• Watch my fundraiser videos in full, leave a comment with six words or more, and share the posts.
• Each result adds to the total fund available for vouchers.
  You can find my fundraiser videos on TikTok by searching @Mummyof5miracleschez or by following the hashtag #feeding50familiesforxmas #feeding50forxmas

Why Your Support Matters

Christmas can be magical—but financial stress can turn it into a season of worry for too many families. Your participation:

• Eases financial strain on parents and caregivers
• Ensures children wake up to a festive breakfast
• Spreads a message of compassion and solidarity in our community
  This effort isn’t just about food. It’s about restoring dignity and hope to households in need and reminding them that they are not alone.

Join Me in Spreading Christmas Joy

1. Visit my GoFundMe page and donate what you can.
2. Engage with my TikTok fundraiser videos—watch, comment, and share.
3. Share this post with friends, family, and on social media.
   Let’s come together and make this Christmas unforgettable for 50 families. Thank you for your generosity and for helping me turn hardship into hope.

Let’s be real—this wasn’t the blog post I thought I’d be writing. One minute I was sat on the bed chatting with Mike and Ellie about my long wait for a foot operation, and the next I was staring at my NHS app, blinking at a new referral: “Two-week pathway for suspected bowel cancer.” Wait—what?
I knew I was waiting for a colonoscopy after dealing with some bowel issues, but this was the first I’d heard of anything more serious. Previous tests hadn’t raised any red flags, so seeing that referral felt like a punch to the gut

The Sudden Shift: From Routine to Urgent

The very next day, a letter arrived from the hospital. I had an appointment in just a few days with the endoscopy unit, plus an invite to take part in a new Triomic research study. It was all happening fast—like someone had hit the fast-forward button on my life.
At the appointment, they asked about my symptoms, reviewed my blood tests, and did an examination. That’s when the consultant decided I needed an urgent colonoscopy to check for bowel cancer. I remember sitting there, feeling like I was watching it all happen to someone else. It was surreal.

Bowel Prep & Brutal Honesty

Soon after, I received letters for both a telephone consultation and the procedure itself. During the call, they asked about my medications, symptoms, and gave me strict dietary instructions. Basically, if it had colour, I couldn’t eat it. The prep drinks? Let’s just say they tasted like the worst shots you’ve ever had—and never trust a fart during this phase. I mean it.

The Big Day: Colonoscopy Chaos

I arrived at the hospital, filled out a questionnaire, and got changed into a gown and some very questionable pants with a hole in the back (yes, really). I opted for sedation, hoping I’d barely remember the procedure. Spoiler alert: I remembered everything. It was agony.
I ended up sucking on gas and air like it was my last breath—so much so that the nurse had to tell me to chill out and breathe slower. Oops.

The Diagnosis: Diverticular Disease

After the procedure, I was taken to recovery, still in a lot of pain. The nurse explained that they’d found diverticular disease—a condition where small pockets form in the bowel wall. Apparently, the water and air pumped into the bowel during the procedure can get trapped in these pockets, making it more painful than usual.
I was given IV paracetamol and told, quite seriously, to try my best to fart. Yes, that was my official medical advice. After a few hours (and a few attempts), I was finally allowed home with my new diagnosis.

Final Thoughts: Listen to Your Body

Now I’m adjusting to life with diverticular disease and feeling incredibly grateful that it wasn’t something more sinister. If you’ve been experiencing bowel symptoms or feel like something’s off—please get checked. I was lucky, but it could have easily gone the other way.

It all started with a cheeky bet. Me and my girls, chatting away, dared each other to hit 1,000 TikTok followers first. I laughed, said “Watch me,” and they rolled their eyes like I’d just claimed I could fly. Fast forward to today, and I’m sitting here with over 50,000 followers—and no wings in sight, just a whole lot of hustle, heart, and hilarious content.

From Kitchen Moves to TikTok Grooves

My TikTok journey has been anything but ordinary. I didn’t come in with a strategy—I came in with vibes. I started posting what I love:

• 🥘 Cooking up real meals with real flavor (and sometimes a little chaos)
• 🛍️ Showing off my fave finds on TikTok Shop—because who doesn’t love a good bargain with a side of sass?
• 🎉 Party dances that may or may not involve me turning my living room into a nightclub
• 📱 Life updates that are raw, real, and sometimes ridiculous
  Turns out, people didn’t just watch—they stayed. They laughed, they commented, they shared, and they helped me build a community that’s as vibrant and unpredictable as my content calendar.

What Makes My TikTok Tick?

Let’s be honest—TikTok is full of creators. But here’s what makes my corner of the internet a little extra:

• Unfiltered fun: I’m not here to be perfect. I’m here to be me—and maybe spill a little sauce while I’m at it.
• Relatable realness: Whether I’m dancing in slippers or reviewing a product I actually use, it’s all 100% Chez.
• Community vibes: From fundraiser updates to everyday wins, I love sharing the journey with people who genuinely care.

50K and Beyond: What’s Next?

Hitting 50K is wild, but I’m just getting started. Expect:

• More cooking content (yes, I’ll try not to burn anything)
• TikTok Shop hauls and honest reviews
• Dance routines that may or may not involve the kids
• Real-life updates, fundraiser goals, and maybe even a few bloopers

Final Thoughts: Thank You for Riding With Me

To everyone who’s followed, liked, commented, or just watched silently while sipping tea—thank you. You turned a silly bet into a beautiful journey, and I’m beyond grateful.
If you’re new here, hit that follow button and join the madness. And if you’ve been here since the beginning, just know: you’re part of the reason I made it to 50K. Let’s keep growing, glowing, and grooving—one TikTok at a time.